In defense of teens
29 03 2007By Lingbo Li
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This week’s contributor, 17-year-old Somers High School senior Lingbo Li, is co-editor of her high school paper, The Tusker Times. |
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I’m not destroying the world.
Kids listen to music with obscene lyrics. They’ve got no self-respect. They are too fast, too loose, and too immoral. The country is going to hell in a hand basket.
No, I’m not talking about me. I’m referencing you, baby boomer.
You were looked over with disapproving eyes when you listened to “the devil’s music” and let your hair grow long. MTV may be raunchy by your standards, but so was Presley’s legendary hip swivel. Your mother incited scandal when she cut her hair short and went on dates without a chaperone. Think MySpace is bad? The telephone, when first introduced, raised similar concerns about privacy.
So you’ve earned your right to look down on teenagers through years of life experience. You are shocked (just shocked!) at the proliferation of social networking sites like Myspace and facebook. You claim that it’s a sign we have no more self-respect. You can’t get over how some teenagers choose to live and make mistakes in a very public way, publicizing their exploits through words and pictures online. Sometimes these thoughts are prefaced by the disclaimer, “Now maybe I’m old-fashioned but…”
Old-fashioned isn’t always bad. But as long as adults pointedly refuse to understand their children’s culture, that generation gap will forever remain just that: a gap. Some gaps are larger than others. A generation that lived through the Great Depression will have a different point of view than someone who swims in credit card debt. A World War II vet may have a harder time connecting with his peacenik son.
But I am tired of all the articles harping of the ills of my generation. We are apathetic; we consume reality TV; we wear midriff-baring t-shirts; we have no shame. Some of this is obviously true for some people. However, these kinds of statements that paint teenagers as merely materialistic narcissists with serious Paris Hilton syndromes only annoy me. I’m tired of being blamed for cultural decline. It’s a hard load for an 18 year old to bear.
Today, I was sitting in a room with ten other passionate and intelligent seniors from my school, talking about our community service initiatives and human rights work with a journalist. I was expecting it to be a dull bragging session, but I left that room humbled and exhilarated by the work and emotion of my classmates. When I mentioned my column topic, they urged me to bring up all the things that young people have done for the world, both in Westchester and internationally. And guess what: many people in that room had a MySpace, watched reality TV, surfed the internet too often, and sometimes made bad choices.
So did you. Well, at least on the bad choices point. You also had controversial new technology and morals that irritated the sensibilities of parents. It seems to be the perennial job of the older to look upon the younger and shake their heads at wild, crazy youth. (They’re just jealous.) While today’s world may move faster, it’s just a matter of adjustment. And despite the benefit of living in a world without MTV, I don’t think your generation will turn out so much better than mine.
So the next time you preface something by, “Now maybe I’m old-fashioned but…” consider that maybe you are. I think those “kids today” will be just fine.
Categories : March 2007



