An honorable b(r)unch

1 03 2010

[A photo gallery of the William Gerstenzang Brunch at Murphy’s Grill on Feb. 28 hosted by Yorktown Republican Town Committee can be viewed at <a href=”http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=148732&id=178555436935&saved#!/NCNLocal”>

The Yorktown Republican Town Committee is a collegial bunch that always is reaching out to let people like me know what they are up to, even inviting me to celebratory events other than news conferences as working press (which is a significant distinction in that it means the media is not expected to pay for admission because it is a conflict of interest for us to give any money to any political group, whether it is in the form of admission to a fundraiser or a campaign contribution.)

Other parties’ local leadership might borrow some pages from the playbook of Yorktown Republicans, who are both savvy and pleasant to deal with, a demeanor and professionalism that predated their handily winning election to a town council seat and the supervisor’s office. They are neither fair-weather fawners nor bad-weather blamers. They are even-handed and civil.

None of the above has anything to do with my own political preferences or for whom I vote, which I keep private. There’s nothing so presumptuous in my world as people who think they know how I vote or what are my politics based on who I might play golf with or hang around. (Besides which, I have a funny thing about not going where I’m not invited.) The presumptuous ones — who often as not get it wrong — only tell me I’ve succeeded in keeping a poker face where my politics are concerned (but if you wanted to get rich quick, just invite me to play poker and bring a saddlebag to haul home your winnings).

Chatting with recently departed Town Justice Bill Gerstenzang at the well-attended brunch in his honor Sunday, Feb. 28 at Murphy’s, I learned more about that position in a few minutes than I had ever known.

He first was elected in 1997, and so served in that capacity 12 years. With corporate clients for his patent law practice based in Europe, such as Bayer, he is abed at 8:30 and out of bed at 4:30 a.m. to be in his Manhattan office by 7:00 a.m. That way, he can be more in synchronization with the Euro business day that is five hours ahead. Mr. Gerstenzang then can leave his office mid-afternoon and thus miss the crush of rush hour both ways.

Except for one niggling detail. If law enforcement makes an arrest late at night and the collar has to be arraigned, the town justice is alerted to handle the arraignment immediately. With two part-time town justices in Yorktown, there is a tag team dynamic at work where each jurist alternates such tasks, typically a month at a time.

So, after Justice Gerstenzang was fast asleep many a night, he could be rousted at 10 or 11 or even in the middle of the night if a warrant was needed to consummate a drug bust or a perpetrator in stir was especially unruly and the YPD wanted to ship said person that night to the County jail. Such work makes for fitful sleeps, to say the least.

It might technically be part-time, but in practice, “it’s a 24-hour job,” he allowed. That lifestyle hiccup notwithstanding, he found his time on the bench to be rewarding in bringing situations to a resolution and helping young people find the straight and narrow path back to lawful behavior. He also said there is more stress in his day job as patent attorney than he had handing down sentences, even though he suffered a heart attack a couple years ago, and now looks fit as a fiddle.

It’s no wonder, though, that he summed up his new state of being, with Justice Sal Lagonia and Justice Ilan Gilbert holding forth in Town Court, as a “good change; good for the Sal, good for me, and good for the town.”

Along with others at the brunch, we wish The Ever Honorable William Gerstenzang and his family all good things as he returns to a wholly private life after serving the public with high distinction.

As an aside, after soaking up lots of gossip about the assortment of hopefuls looking to nab the Republican nomination for Greg Ball’s 99th Assembly District seat as he seeks new worlds to conquer in the New York State Senate, we couldn’t resist sidling up to Yorktown Councilman Terrence Murphy, who was chatting with Yorktown Republican honcho Larry Cassidy and Yorktowner Gary Raniolo, an attorney I’ve known for many years since his son Gary Jr. and my late son Harrison were boyhood pals.

“Terrence,” I asked, “can you do me a favor and point out the people here who are NOT running for Assembly because that would be easier than telling me who is.”

At last count, there were no less than six, and we suppose there’ll be even more. That’s a good thing, we think. Our long-held tongue-in-cheek observation is that there are two types of people in this world, and especially in local activities: those who volunteer and those who complain. A surge in people seeking public office may bode well that one day, the volunteers will outnumber the complainers.

But, we won’t hold our breath right now on that one. Not until counting the people in a room who aren’t running for office is quicker than counting those who are.



The incredible whiteness of snowing

26 02 2010

Up at 7:20. Clock flashing 2:35. We lost power, my powers of deductive reasoning tell me. We regained power, ditto the deduction, kiddo. Yippee. Out bedroom window. Wow, it’s weally white out there, wifey. Wifey: “Yes, I know, you wuss, where were YOU at 6:00a when you shoulda been shoveling snow instead of shoveling the shoot last night at your computer doing whatever it is you do on that dagnabit demonic device.” (Disclosure: All previous dialogue is purely figment of my imagination. Never said. Never happened. But this is a blog, which means half of what is writ is true. Like the famous advertising axiom, you just don’t know which half, unless the blogger tells you, and even then, who knows? As for anonymous bloggers, that creepy crawly species of digital devolution, you can’t believe anything those gutless wonders write. They blog for therapy when they should be IN therapy, but I can’t help them there because I’m not a licensed practitioner.) How’s THAT for a protracted parenthetical aside? Send your answers to bapar@ncnlocal.com if you don’t want to win a prize because I got nuttin’ to give.

Like the little kid I never stopped being, the profusion of snow excites me. I can’t wait to get outside and get to the office. I’m assuming there will be few of us there, mainly those like myself who live within a coupla miles, within the Yorktown town limits.

It may sound flakey, but even though on days like this a person can feel adrift, I have ice in my veins, and perhaps water on the brain. But I say, bring on the snow, man.

Open the garage door. There’s a curvature of snow rising up to where the door just was before retracting on its creaky pulley contraption. I pick up a shovel to push some of the snow away from the portal, all the while thinking this may not be the best idea because my back has been bothering me since bowling those three games Sunday night with my YAC brethren in support of Yorktown High baseball coach Sean Kennedy’s fundraiser for the team. Let’s just say after a long layoff, I found bowling currently is not right up my alley, and it didn’t help that my back was infirm before the ball got rolling (which explains why my game from the get-go was in the gutter until I found my graceless form).

I pulled my 1998 RAV 4 ragtop out and immediately had the sensation of hydroplaning, except on frozen instead of liquid water. It was kinda fun, actually.

At the end of our hammerhead driveway, the car stopped as the wheels kept spinning. I couple of jukes back and forth let me burst through the street-plowed embankment forming a barricade between the publicly-owned street and our bank-owned paved path destined to end in a garage.

I picked up the yellow plastic bag containing the 20th Century artifact that still arrives daily and brought it inside like the once-in-a-while thoughtful husband I oughta be more often-in-a-while. The wife peered outside the warmth of the kitchen and what passes for a virtual mud foyer and declared after eyeballing the snow by the garage entrance that it looked like 18 inches. After I regained my composure from being doubled over laughing at the hyperbolic assessment, I said it was a drift, not fallen snow, and that it probably was less than a foot deep at that.

Elyse produced one of those math-class three-sided rulers with markings on two sides I didn’t understand in trig and still don’t, and sure enough, the snow stopped at about 10 inches. Case closed.

It was now about 8:35 as I proceeded to the office, snapping white-out vignettes with my phone along the way (Verizon can’t offer the iPhone soon enough for my money, and it will take a lot of that for me to change my fruit diet, but I like apples more than blackberries anyhoo.)

The only vehicles I espied between my house and where Route 35 meets Broad Street right past Brookside Elementary were snow plows and that of my neighbor, Yorktown Board of Ed trustee Mark Drexel, who rolled down his window while making the turn from town to Broad as I sat at the Stop sign to ask what I was doing on the road in these conditions. Me: “I’m crazy.” Mark: “Me too.”

Oh, yeah, and there was one other private vehicle, driven by someone who, in this of all conditions, didn’t have his headlights on. He’s of course our Maddening Motorist Award winner of the day, and one only can hope the dunderhead doesn’t cause damage to someone else who knows enough that it’s both common sense and state law to have headlights on in inclement weather so other motorists can more easily see you coming. I barely saw him barreling down Broad Street as I waited to exit our development. Nice going, Slick.

Then, at the intersection of Ridge Street and Route 202, a power line was down, hovering not far above the roof of my car, with Yorktown Police Officer Mike Kahn on the scene. I continued snapping away (photos will be posted at Facebook.com/NCNLocal).

In the middle of town, I could continue to count other cars on one hand. Pulled into Starbucks closed. Edwin’s open. 7-Eleven open. Those business operators should get some kind of prize for customer service beyond the call of duty. Let’s hear it, folks, for neighborhood owned-and-operated businesses. Last time there was a lot less snow falling one afternoon, Panera closed its doors at 4:00 p.m. What’s with these chain operations? Hardly hardy stock. Guess which businesses I’ll be sure to patronize more in the future? The ones who are there when you need them most, that’s who. Local businesses, that’s who.

This is the kind of weather and these are the kinds of times that cause some of us to fret for the future of civilization. Believe it or not, that’s not meant to be either facetious or an exaggeration. A day like Friday, Feb. 26 separates those in the snow from those who don’t want to know what it takes to get the job done.

What does one make of workers who arrive at their Yorktown office at 7:30 a.m. from an hour’s drive away in a different state — none the worse for wear — or who determinedly push ahead from Poughkeepsie to report to work. Or a worker whose husband is shoveling the snowplow-created wall of snow blocking the cul-de-sac driveway so she can get to work on time? These are folks made of sterner stuff when the white stuff causes others to act like the sky is falling.

For an employer, a day like today is a no-win. You can’t exactly expect people to push ahead to get to work under such conditions, but the truth of the matter is I am no mountain man and am far from fearless and not exactly wreckless when it comes to my personal safety and well-being, and I don’t see that this is exactly a record-making meteorological event. The main roads are very passable if you drive with due caution at sensible speeds.

My friend Ahmad Bash, owner of Yorktown’s 7-Eleven, told me this morning that a customer told him, “This is the worst I’ve seen.” Both Ahmad and I concurred it’s far, far from that. “He hasn’t seen much then,” I cracked. Ahmad recalled the storm of 1996 that was appreciably more precipitous than this occurrence. This is no walk in the park, but it’s also not a walk through Central Park at night in the 1970s and ’80s, which in that era was downright foolhardy, if not death-defying. Maybe it still is, but Mayors Giuliani and Bloomberg have done yeomans’ work reducing NYC crime in general, so hats off to them both. The only folks who still think NYC is the nation’s crime capital are those who never visited it but hate it nonetheless. I’ve encountered the type in my Left Coast travels especially, like the time one wit advised a friend not to go near Yankee Stadium because it’s in … The South Bronx! (ominous melodramatic music swells here). Of course, the immediate periphery of The Stadium is eminently safe because it has more cops patrolling than a precinct stationhouse.

Weather like this also tests the resourcefulness and sheer competency of TV news. One field reporter described a town where power had gone off and on and off again, labeling that chronic problem “concurrent,” which was as close to “recurring” as he could manage but made no sense. Something tells me he’s not into crossword puzzles. Comic books, maybe. It’s no joke, though. These are professional, very well-paid public presenters and information agents who struggle to speak with authority or lucidity. And you thought Ted Knight’s character on The Mary Tyler Moore Show or William Hurt’s airhead anchor in “Broadcast News” were pure fiction?

When the going gets tough out there, the tough in general don’t seem to be producing TV news coverage, which quickly begins to play like the movie “Groundhog Day.” Every “package,” as those who make TV call it, is a cookie-cutter version of the one before it and after it. How many B rolls of snow plows and salt trucks do we need to see, or motorists whining, or a reporter standing waist-deep in a snowdrift. We get it. It snowed. A lot. Thanks for the incisive reportage.

My opthalmologist’s office is closed today, so my experiment in wearing contacts for the first time in my life will have to wait. When I called a second time to see if anybody would be in the office today, the message service operator told me, “The roads are awful, sir.” Oh, I see (but not with contacts until next week, I guess.)

Well, tell that to a hospital patient who needs a nurse or doctor or orderly, or to someone in the ER waiting for a serious injury to be treated: “We’re sorry, but nobody can help you today because, you know, the roads out there are just awful.” Tell it to the people of Haiti: “We just had 12 inches of snow and you can’t imagine what it’s like. We are completely dysfunctional.” You can say that again. Haitians only wish they could imagine something so relatively uneventful.

Hudson Valley Hospital Center spokesperson Dawn French tells us that “[we] had a couple of dozen staff members stay overnight, some sleeping on inflatable mattresses…to ensure we continue to provide quality care for our patients.  The Engineering Department has worked through the night plowing the hospital to keep it safe for visitors and staff…”

THAT’S WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT! 

Despite the edgy observations this blog is known to make as a matter of course — that’s commentainment! — I don’t sit in judgment or hold to account or blame anyone for not going to work today (and if you care what I think anyhow, that’s your first mistake; I’m just another jerk with an opinion on everything that doesn’t concern me.)

What can rankle, though, is the attitude of anyone who virtually decides not to go to work the next day based on the eventuality of a forecast — not on the workday’s actuality. It’s not my opinion that matters in that case. It’s just wrong. Maybe it’s time to change jobs for that person, or for the job to be changed for that person. In the case of Friday, Feb. 25, the forecast was prescient and a decision to stay home is well advised. But at other times, when the forecast overstates the actuality, it’s not the weather’s severity that decides who shows up; it’s whether the person’s free will wants to be at work that day.

Now I’m in Chase Media Group offices at my desk. Oops. We lost power. But there’s backup. So, heigh-ho, it’s back to work I go. Where there’s free will, there’s a freeway that’ll take you there. Unless there’s a little (less) snow in the way (than today). Then, where there’s a wimp, there’s no way I’m going in to work on a so-so snowday because I’d rather play than make hay. O-kay! Whatever you say!

Stay safe, warm, dry. And don’t patronize anonymous blogs. If you’re going to get riled up, like by today’s especially bilious blog entry you just read, might as well know who to rant against.



Augie’s Idol has winner(s)

24 02 2010

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There were no losers Tuesday night (23) at Augie’s Prime Cut Restaurant and Bar in the Mohegan Lake hamlet of Yorktown. (One of the myriad beauties of life in Yorktown is the charm of having five sub-’burbs grouped under the rubric of hamlet. Billy Bard would be proud, if a tad confused because, after all, as far as he was concerned, to paraphrase Oscar Hammerstein II, “There is nothing like a Dane.”)

After such a self-indulgently elongated parenthetical aside, the writer in me (yeah, he’s in there somewhere, I swear) is compelled to act like one of those ’60s serial weekly TV dramas that began with a recap of “last week’s episode.”

Well, it’s true. There were no losers at the final, championship-round, no-holds-barred, cage match of Augie’s Idol Season 1 (Season 2 starts April 22). Not the audience (with an unfortunate momentary lapse of couth at the end), not the restaurant staff or management, and certainly not the two performers, who gave it their all and treated the jam-packed house to a thrilling display of competitive vocalizations in a community contest that was a rousing success on several levels.

The community itself — and people came from all over Westchester as well as beyond its borders, including as far away as Poughkeepsie (made famous by Gene Hackman’s cryptic recurring line in Oscar-winning “The French Connection” to a punk: “Do you pick your feet in Poughkeepsie?”) — got to spend a weekend-style night midweek each Tuesday for 14 weeks. The ultimate night was simply amazing not least because on a horrendously inclement evening, when it took me nearly an hour to drive back to Yorktown from Hastings on a snow-encrusted Taconic, Augie’s was more crowded than arguably for any of the previous elimination rounds. It was quite a sight.

Showman Sal Barone, owner of the hot spot with wife Audrey Hochroth, even added his trademark dash of class and flash with what he jokingly called his “flashlight,” actually a skylight the likes of which are used at Hollywood premieres. As I was driving up a white-blanketed Lexington Avenue from Route 202, the beam of light washed across the night sky like a beacon beckoning to a judge who was running late after hightailing it from a really cool reception at Harvest on the Hudson to launch Hudson Valley Restaurant Week March 15-28.  Fortunately, the competition start time was running late too, so my lateness was right on schedule!

The restaurant staff and management benefited from a major boost in the watering hole’s reputation, reach, number of regulars and, quite evidently from all the filled tables and heavily peopled bar, midweek take.

Even the judges, including yours truly, had so much fun it should be illegal, with time off for good behavior.

Extra big shout-outs go to keyboardist par excellence Shelly Gartner and sound technician Brian Gunther, both of whose reliability, proficiency and professionalism helped elevate this competition way beyond a run-of-the-mill karaoke night.

The final night was graced by Maxine (Mrs. Tommy) Agee, a delightful person who served as a celebrity judge and with vocal chops of her own, as she amply showed with her rendition of “Wind Beneath My Wings.”

But the real point of this musing about the musicfest Augie’s treated us to these past several months is that both MaryAnn Renza and Vanessa Raccioppo are winners. Their final three performances each were a fitting, exciting culmination to the hard-fought competition.

Even my friends in the crowd who were so upset at the end they made some inelegant remarks about the outcome can be forgiven their trespasses because that’s how seriously some people took this bout among the warbling warriors. Some silly remark was passed — shouted, actually — that one of the contestants “should have been gone three weeks ago,” which couldn’t be further from the truth. Nobody in their right mind who was a regular Idol-ator would argue that MaryAnn and Vanessa weren’t the most deserving finalists.  We of course are not about to dignify the dishy outburst by identifying to whom it was aimed because it has zero validity. Like we said, there were no losers. That’s the point. That’s the spirit of this competition. To suggest otherwise is to totally miss the point, and perhaps to overindulge in liquid refreshment beyond your tolerance. That’s why The Kinks’ Ray Davies (pronounced “Davis,” BTW) called it “Old Demon Alcohol.” It can make people act waywardly and talk gibberish.

Miss MaryAnn opened it with “Remember Me,” and Miss Vanessa answered the well-sung challenge with “At Last.” Next time up, Miss MaryAnn lit into her belting mode with “The Greatest Love of All” and Miss Vanessa delivered a fresh rendition of “Over the Rainbow” that highlighted her smooth style.

Then it was time for the final round and Miss MaryAnn certainly didn’t disappoint, using her brassy, room-size personality and punctuated gesticulation to full effect with an homage to Tina Turner’s “Proud Mary.”

Finally, Miss Vanessa capped the competition with a sultry, shimmering “Power of Love.”

Both of these Misses didn’t miss much when it came to having the right instincts and excellent song selection that showed off their respective strengths and muted their lesser qualities. They both know how to put a song over, a talent that at its best is transparent because it’s effortless, but, perhaps paradoxically, you still know it when you see it, and hear it. Vanessa received a $2000 check from Sal Barone and Audrey Hochroth as well as a chance to appear in the April production of “Cats” staged by Scarlett Antonia of Antonia Arts at the Paramount Theater in Peekskill. Miss MaryAnn Renza received a $500 check from Bel D’Oro Jewelers owners Gino and Josephine Rubino, who are upping the runner-up prize for Season 2 to $750. They also are exploring the possible appearance of the elegant Miss Vanessa Raccioppo in Bel D’Oro marketing.

Speaking of Misses, I’m going to miss watching all the Augie’s Idol entrants, especially these two. But who knows. There’s always Season 2, right Sal and Audrey. Maybe I’ll even get my long-awaited break as a standup. That’s the dream of every aspiring comic — to play the big room in a Vegas hotel. In my case, it may be Sal announcing, “And now, laddies and germs, playing in Augie’s Men’s Room, please welcome Bruce the Blog. Fortunately, seating is limited.” Sorta gives new meaning to the show biz term “standup.” But I’m not greedy. All I need is a single laugh in that venue to feel flush with success. Oops. Time to clean up my act. Besides, the hook’s here. Later.



Yorktown BoE candidate is right choice

18 02 2010

We hear that with Yorktown Board of Ed trustee Judith Huntington stepping down in deference to her new full-time post as president of the College of New Rochelle, only one hat is in the ring: Tom Donatelli.

We know and have worked with Tom and can enthusiastically vouch for his being a highly involved, eminently sensible, fair, analytical and savvy community contributor who would be a notable asset to the Board of Ed and the Yorktown district.

Tom currently serves on the boards of Foundation for Excellence in Yorktown Schools and of Yorktown Athletic Club (YAC), where he is Treasurer. Bruce the Blog (who also is on the YAC board) applauds the BoE for its due diligence in extending the period for submission of names to ensure everyone with an interest has a fair shot at being considered for appointment.

Still, with all due respect to anyone else who might apply, BtB can’t see that the BoE will do better than by adding Tom Donatelli to their ranks. BtB looks forward to his friend’s formal appointment to fill the vacant seat, and to his eventual election to the board by the voting public later this year.

Speaking of the Board of Ed, we have a sneaking suspicion that an issue in the making is clarification of the Yorktown — or any — district’s policy on businesses soliciting students as customers within a school building. Our understanding is that there are strict rules for outside commercial operators, who cannot pitch their goods or services on school property without formal permission, which is rarely given and even then only to a privileged few. Take official team photographers, for example.

So when a faculty member, for another example, runs a personal business unaffiliated with the district, how does that person go about drumming up business among students without the implicit or explicit approval of the district or the building administration or the Board of Education?

These are very open-ended questions that we suspect — and expect — will be asked more formally in the near future. We look forward to the answers.

But first there are more weighty matters at hand that must be resolved, like deliberating and debating and defining the differences between a sponsorship and a donation. We’d like to see that powers that be find ways to facilitate and leverage independent fundraising efforts — where individual and corporate donations supplement public monies that are in ever shorter supply — rather than fuss over what to call them.



‘Idol’ Worship: then there were three

11 02 2010

Augie’s Prime Cut Restaurant & Bar in Mohegan Lake Tuesday night turned into Motown, at least for the first round of the quarterfinals in the rockin’ and rollin’ Augie’s Idol competition that packs this already popular dining destination every week.

I had the privilege of being a guest judge this past Tuesday, thanks to owners Audrey Hochroth and Sal Barone, who have proven promotional wizards. Frankly, the task was made more fun by the fact what I said — as well as the other three judges — had no bearing on the outcome. That’s because this was the first week that the live audience voted for their favorites, showing the door to the singer with the fewest votes.

It was down to four vocalists: Brianne Chasanoff, Vanessa Raccioppo, Rob Raio, Maryann Renza.

The other judges were musicians Joe and Carmine, who I quickly hit it off with, and Augie’s Chef Fabio, who doesn’t pull his punches when delivering a verdict to each singer. He told Rob Raio, who admittedly had a bit of a rough night with both Stevie Wonder’s Isn’t She Lovely and Billy Joel’s New York State of Mind, “I didn’t think you’d still be here.”

Brianne is notable for playing keyboards and composing her own music. She has a Carol King-ish presence and is undeniably a musical talent.

I asked Maryann if she knows who Ethel Merman is because Maryann is a belter in the old tradition of La Merman, famous for her star turns in Annie Get Your Gun and Gypsy. Fittingly, Maryann sang Aretha’s Respect. I told her, “It takes gut to do Aretha, and you also have the chops.” She knows how to fill a room with her voice and personality.

Vanessa has the best pure voice in the competiton, and few of the regulars these past few weeks are surprised she’s still there. We expected her to be. In fact, at this point, you have to consider her the odds-on favorite to be crowned Augie’s Idol on Feb. 23. Her Motown choice was the gorgeous Jackson 5 melody, I’ll Be There. “You had me at I’ll,” I told Vanessa after she finished.

She’s a sensual stylist who pours herself into the song and knows how to phrase, which requires an artful combination of training, technique and pure instinct.

Among popular singers, the two greatest exponents of song phrasing in my — and a lot of other people’s — book are Frank Sinatra and Judy Garland. The average listener wouldn’t notice much, and that’s precisely the point: effortlessness is the essence of their brilliance in making virtually each song they sing their own.  As someone who plays Sinatra and Garland recordings frequently, it’s virtually impossible for me to listen to any other singer perform their signature songs — which are abundant — without comparing the cover, unfavorably, to the genuine article.

Two of the greatest albums I own are live concerts of Sinatra at the Sands in Las Vegas and — the all-time king (or queen) of live concerts: Judy at Carnegie Hall, recorded in 1962. You’ve never heard a tres chic  audience of A-list celebrities and socialites go crazy like they do in this concert. During the multiple encores, the ovations for Garland that cascade down from the tiers of the historic hall last longer than the songs.

When I told Vanessa she reminded me of a torch singer, like Peggy Lee, a young woman at a ringside table told me to explain what that meant. I did a lousy job of it by saying, “It’s a singer who simmers, and Vanessa, you light my fire.” Ha ha. Bruce the wiseacre. What I should have said is that it’s a performer who smolders in the delivery of slow songs that light the flame of love, hence torch singer.  Vanessa fills the bill.

By the way, Brianne didn’t make the cut Tuesday, so next Tuesday, it’s Maryann, Rob, Vanessa going toe to toe and mouth to mouth. Oops. That doesn’t sound right. Come next Tuesday, we’ll find out which one of them doesn’t sound right to the audience. I have my own thoughts on who that will be, but I’ll keep those thoughts to myself for now.



Yorktown Ghostown

10 02 2010

Yorktown Heights was Ghostown Heights today. At 4:00 p.m., I drove up Commerce Street towards the crossroads at Route 202 and I espied exactly one other car on the road. There were several cars in CVS Plaza, with empty spots aplenty but of course nonetheless there was the obligatory Maddening Motorist sitting front of CVS, jutting out into the lane I needed to exit the lot into the Triangle Center.

[Speaking of Maddening Motorist Awards, which we haven’t meted out in too long a time, even though there is no shortage of drivers deserving them though there is shortage of considerateness for others, a special citation goes to the lady in front of 7-Eleven on Monday with her motor running, reading a newspaper while her Volvo straddled the line to neatly occupy two spaces. In addition to the MMA, let’s give her a blue ribbon for obliviousness.]

Back at the Triangle, I was headed to Mrs. Green’s to buy Agave Nectar, which North County News Managing Editor Kathleen Maffetone turned me on to as an organic sweetener that is much superior to the chemically-based artificial sweeteners.  I was real happy to see Mrs. Green’s was opened, with me the sole customer at the time, despite the desolate Triangle parking lot, where the only cars were in front of A&P. I also noted Radio Shack was open. Kudos to both of those chains for serving customers with mettle worthy of the U.S. Post Office’s weather-proof work ethic.

As long as I was out, Panera beckoned to me for a salad, and I saw the lights still on inside, so I parked alongside the only other car in that part of the lot. Yet, by the time I was out of the car, Panera’s lights were doused and a worker was leaving the building at 4:00 p.m.. Whatever. I guess they won’t miss the 8 bucks or so I was ready to spend on a salad, but I can’t help that it did leave a sour taste in my mouth. Mrs. Green’s being opened spoiled me.

The bottom line meteorologically is we didn’t get nearly the maximum snowfall forecast, and I found the roads easily passable, especially the main surface roads, but also neighborhood streets.

But don’t go by me. I live 2.2 miles from my office. My commuting career has come full cycle. In the late 70s and early 80s, I lived on Second Avenue at 23rd Street in Manhattan, a 10-minute walk to my office at Park Avenue South and 17th Street. I switched companies to help launch a consumer entertainment magazine that was distributed in thousands of 7-Elevens. Except the office was in Philadelphia, so I’d drive each Monday morning to Philly, stay with my partner in his home, and drive back each Friday.

After a year of that — the first year of my marriage to boot — we relocated to Philadelphia. We lived on Arch Street at Fourth Street, in the shadow of the Ben Franklin Bridge, with Betsy Ross’s House a block away.  That walk to the office was also about 10 minutes, or less, to North Second Street at Market Street. Then there were the transcontinental commutes in the late 90s and early oughts to a second office in California, which at its peak had me boarding planes every other Sunday to depart for Southern California, returning that Friday, except for the the stretch in fall 2000 when I flew to the Santa Ana office six Sundays in a row, spending only weekends at home.

There was a period of consulting, when the commute is vertical: up and down stairs from bedroom to home office. That was followed by a gig in Princeton, New Jersey, and I was back on the long-distance road, becoming a regular at the Red Roof Inn, where I’d hole up during the weeks I put to bed the professional magazine I launched for the digital media manufacturing industry.

Now it’s a stone’s throw again to my office. So when it comes to reports from the road about driving conditions during inclement conditions, don’t rely on me for accurate readings. One thing I do know, though: Lady MacBeth was treacherous. Inanimate objects like roads are not capable of treachery.



The light that still shines

7 02 2010

 Our family feels infinitely fulfilled after Friday night’s Celebrate Yorktown! awards ceremony and dinner-dance party hosted by Yorktown Chamber of Commerce at Colonial Terrace. Honored were that venue’s owners Sheila + Alan Drogy as Business Persons of the Year, Harrison Apar Field of Dreams Foundation as Service Organization of the Year and Club Fit owners David Swope, Beth Beck, Bill Beck Jr. and Ellen Koelsch as recipients of Chase Media Group’s John W. Chase Award for Business and Community Leadership.

 

In a Sunday newspaper article about children of Yorktown whose deaths were not the result of natural causes, Jeffrey Veatch, the father of deceased teenager Justin Veatch, remarks that the singular fear of the cohort of parents who lose children is having their progeny forgotten in time.

 

That explains as well as any observation the motivation that possesses people who cannot help but become self-centered — even narcisstic — parents such as Elyse and I, if only in the interest of keeping the child’s spirit and name alive as long as possible. If such narcissism can be excused or justified, it’s because that’s all you have left of the child.

Seeing others receive proclamations at these events from elected officials is one thing. Actually being the recipient of such parchment, with your son’s name inscribed on each, is quite another feeling. We are thankful to Congressman John Hall, State Senator Vincent Leibell, State Assemblyman Greg Ball, Westchester County Executive Rob Astorino and Chief of Staff George Oros, Westchester County Legislators Michael Kaplowitz and John Testa, Yorktown Supervisor Susan Siegel and the town board, and Cortlandt Supervisor Linda Puglisi and the town board, for issuing proclamations to all the honorees.

Right now, before we shuttle them to Westchester Airport to return to Florida, Harrison’s grandparents, Elyse and I are off to the County Center in White Plains, because after all, thanks to the aforementioned officials of Westchester County, today, February 7, 2010, is Harrison Apar Field of Dreams Foundation Day in Westchester, just as the Drogys and the Club Fit families, as is customary, have been accorded their respective days.  We of course will treasure all the honors forever, in behalf of Harrison and the wonderful community that supports his Foundation’s efforts to make this — even in the smallest way — a wonderful world.

Herewith is what I said to the 300 attendees at the February 5, 2010 Awards Dinner and Party of Yorktown Chamber of Commerce upon receiving our award:

 

Acceptance Remarks

By Bruce Apar

After Presentation To Harrison Apar Field Of Dreams Foundation

As 2010 Service Organization Of The Year

By Yorktown (N.Y.) Chamber Of Commerce

February 5, 2010

Colonial Terrace

Cortlandt Manor, Westchester County, N.Y.

 

Thanks to the Yorktown Chamber of Commerce and its president Joe Visconti.

 

Congratulations of course to my friends Sheila and Alan Drogy of Colonial Terrace, and my friends at Club Fit, the Beck and Koelsch families and David Swope.

 

If I stood here all night, I couldn’t thank all the folks I want to. But I have to acknowledge Liz Marques of BOCES, the wonderful human being who produced that video, over many hours, late into the night, on her own time.

 

And thank you for sitting patiently through the video. We wanted the video to show that the one person more than any other responsible for Harrison Apar Field of Dreams Foundation working as well as it does is not me, or Elyse, or Elissa but … Harrison Apar.

 

The reason Harrison became the person he is standing next to me. No child could have a better parent, and no father could have a better partner, than I have in my wife Elyse. 

 

We never have been prouder of Harrison than we are at this moment. And it’s very meaningful for us that with us tonight are his grandparents Roz and Dr. Leonard Middleman, who live in Florida, as well as his Uncle Marc, his Aunt Linda and his cousin Lauren. [ASK THEM TO STAND]

 

I believe that Harrison was put on this earth – for 15 years — for a beneficent purpose. I believe his purpose was to teach those around him to make the best of the gifts we are given and not to complain about the gifts we are not given. I believe Harrison made me a better person while he was here, and continues to make me a better person wherever he may be. I believe that when it was Harrison’s time to go — when we lost our son — we were given in return the responsibility to do the work with his Foundation that we so love to do.

 

Every night since March 21, 2003 — for the last 2,511 days — before I go to bed, I go to Harrison’s room. I flick on the light switch, and flick it off. That’s my way of letting Harrison know that his light still shines.

 

Thank you for letting his light shine tonight one more time for all to see.



‘Idol’ worship

12 01 2010

This may look like an encore of yesterday’s (Jan. 11) blog, which is totally appropriate since we’re talking about vocalists performing in front of fans.

The vocalists are contestants in a local tribute to Fox Network’s American Idol phenomenon and the fans are patrons of Augie’s Prime Cut Steakhouse in Mohegan Lake, whose proprietors Audrey (”Augie”) Hochroth and Sal Barone are promotional masterminds, judging by the public’s response to this ongoing event.

It was not only a lot of fun on Tuesday night but a lot different than what you’ll experience at almost any other local dining establishement. It’s a very savvy businessperson who can figure out how to not only differentiate his or her offering but also execute it in a way that resonates resoundingly with the target audience. This dynamic husband-and-wife team know just how to pull it off and it’s obvious they are having a ball doing it.

For all the contestants making a pitch to be the winner who walks away with $2000 and a role in the April 2010 Antonia Arts production of Cats at the Paramount Center in Peekskill, the evening moves along quicker than I expected.

At the show was Scarlett Antonia, the eponymous founder of Antonia Arts, who regaled me with stories about her encounters with names like Liza Minnelli when she was in the Broadway dance scene. We share a passion for Sondheim and musical theater in general. With her was marketing whiz Robin Newhook, whose idea it was to bring Antonia and Audrey together and have Augie’s Idol winner cast in a role in Cats.

I also enjoyed jawing with More Sugar Publisher Tom O’Neill and with my friend Bernie Stringer, with whom I share both a love of live local music and a vision and determination to help establish and market a North County Sound. North County News’s recent “Sounds of Peekskill” co-operative ad effort seen on page 2 of our Dec. 23 issue – sponsored by Bean Runner Cafe, Division Street Grill, Ruben’s Mexican Cafe, and 12 Grapes — was inspired by Bernie’s original concept that he brought to us.

The judges on Jan. 12 included Audrey Hochroth (she must know somebody!), Augie’s Chef Fabio (he must know somebody too!), “River” from Michael Roberts Salon and Amanda Brown, whose been a backup singer for Alicia Keys.

I wasn’t the only one surprised by some judges’ remarks following a thoroughly captivating and polished rendition of The Beatles’ “Yesterday” by a very poised, professional young woman. She clearly was one of the two or three best performers of the night. When you start hearing, “It was too pitchy,” it’s a cue that a judge is parroting what’s been said by the music professionals who judge the real American Idol. When I’m a judge for the Feb. 9 “Augie’s Idol,” I will do two things: 1) Not call any contestant “pitchy”; and 2) Ask another judge who uses the word to define what it means. 

A Yankee starter who can’t find the strike zone in late innings: to me, that’s “too pitchy.”

The crowd clearly also was surprised — and not in full agreement — with whom was sent packing at the end. But that’s what make any “Idol” event — whether the genuine article on Fox or local takeoffs — so suspenseful and popular.

Sal Barone told me Augie’s also is planning for this spring a joint promotion with Honda Curry that will award a car to the lucky winner.

In the meantime, check out our Facebook.com/NCNLocal page for our exclusive NCN-TV clips of an amazing performance of “Hero” by Amanda Brown and an interview with Sal and with contestant Hans, who admits he survived the cut “by the skin of his teeth” because the keyboardist and he were in different keys on “Mack the Knife.”



Sing for your supper

11 01 2010

Chase Media Group’s corporate guru Frank J. Rich and I chatted awhile with Sal Barone of Augie’s Primecut Restaurant & Bar in Mohegan Lake Monday night, just after Sal and his restaurateur wife Audrey, whose nickname is Augie, raffled off a couple of Super Bowl tickets. Who knows? Maybe the lucky winners will get to see the Jets, but we somehow doubt it. As noted to one of our sales managers this morning, “Sooner or later, some team is going to cool your Jets.”

Sal could give seminars to other Main Street businesses, restaurants especially, in advertising and promotion. He really gets it, such as noting that, “When you’re busy, you need to advertise, and when things are slow, you need to advertise more.” That’s not the first time we’ve heard that, but we don’t hear local business people say — or practice — that logic of commerce enough.

The big news these days at Augie’s, other than its celebrating a year of brisk, busy business after having opened smack in the middle of a historic recession, is the Augie’s Idol contest, modeled after guess what? Simon Cowell may be leaving American Idol, we’re told by the gossipmeisters, but nobody leaves Augie’s when its crowd-pleasing version of Idol is going full tilt.

There are 11 contestants left and the next sing-off is Tuesday, Jan. 12, at 8:30 p.m. There are about two months of judging left, each Tuesday at the same time, culminating in early March with the last vocalist standing.

The celebrity judge this Tuesday is Alicia Keys backup singer Amanda Brown, whose killer voice can be seen and heard on YouTube. Audrey told us Amanda showed up a week early last Tuesday, and serenaded the patrons with a knockout impromptu performance that had the diners’ jaws dropping at the sound of her huge talent.

For the final four weeks of the competition, the voting will be done — a la American Idol — by the public, but only those who show up at the restaurant — on Lexington Avenue just south of Route 6 in Mohegan Lake — will get the chance to cast a ballot for their fave balladeer among the cast of chanticleers.

In addition to walking home with 2000 bucks cash, the Augie’s Idol winner will be cast in a lead role in a production of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s stage musical “Cats” slated this April at the Paramount Center in Peekskill as a production of Antonia Arts.

I’ll be at Augie’s Tuesday night. Hope to see you there!



Let’s go, town-gown teamwork!

8 01 2010

We have it on very good authority that next week members of the Yorktown Board of Education will sit down with members of the Yorktown Town Board to discuss continuing to share the cost of school recreational facilities usage by area youth recreational leagues that include Yorktown Athletic Club (YAC), Shrub Oak Athletic Club (SOAC) and Yorktown Youth Soccer Club (YYSC). [Full disclosure: this writer sits on the board of YAC).

By way of example, when a recreational league event is held inside a school gym or on a school field, there is an attendant cost owing to maintenance, security, custodial services and so on.

It’s no surprise — with the proliferation of sports activities in Yorktown, a magnet for young families thanks to its high-ranked schools and general quality of life, and the relative shortage of playing venues – that the school facilities would be in great demand constantly.

One source credited facilities director Patricia Harris – a former Board of Education trustee and past president — with keeping it all together through scheduling and logistical coordination, which is no mean feat.

Until a few years ago, the annual Yorktown Athletic Club Winter Classic Basketball Tournament – which started in 1987, and is being held this weekend (Jan. 8-10) at Brewster Sports Arena, a month earlier than its customary early February slot – was a weeklong extravaganza that took place in multiple venues of the Yorktown School District.

It’s been downsized and deported in recent years to a single weekend in Brewster because the school district couldn’t accommodate the YAC tournament’s extensive schedule and roster of teams from throughout the region.

It’s a shame that this hoops institution for our region, which is a tradition not only for YAC but for Yorktown and the other towns who field teams, can’t be situated in its namesake town.

Of course, this anomaly also speaks loudly and clearly to the need for a capacious indoor sports center in Greater Yorktown, a project that is being hatched under the aegis of sports entrepreneur CJ Diven, his attorney Al Capellini and a host of others in support of their efforts. That includes me.

Back at the Board of Ed and town board “showdown” — that’s our dramatic word, nobody else’s — there’s a bit of buzz that there may be some hesitation from the town board side of the table about sharing the burden equally with the school district of facilities usage by the recreational leagues in town.

If the town were to back down from such a commitment, a little Birdie of Ed tells us, then the Board of Ed would be hard pressed NOT to charge the rec clubs directly for their use of the fields and the school gyms.

That truly would be a shame, because, as it was printed in the Salutes and Salvos listed in the year-end Dec. 30 issue of North County News, the net effect would be charging families twice, a not-nice practice known in the trade as “double dipping.”

Not everyone might agree with this interpretation, but we’ll lay it out for you and you decide: A family with soccer-loving kids pays registration and playing fees to YYSC. When that league’s games are held on a school field, YYSC must fork over a portion of each family’s fees to the school district.  It may even have to raise fees to absorb that cost. At the same time, the same family is paying (dearly) in school taxes, which in part pay for the same fields it just played on. If that ain’t double dipping, gag me with a spoon (is that expression passe? sorry, what do I know; I think hip hop is hopscotch played with a hula hoop)

All this is just idle conjecture at this point, but isn’t that why blogs were invented?